• Amira Fleming

If I could turn back time

Firstly, my apologies if you’re now have visions of Cher singing in that outfit. Secondly, if I had a dollar for every time I heard, “If I could turn back time, I would have employed a wedding planner”, I could shut up shop and retire on the proceeds!

As a wedding planner, the reasons for this retrospective longing are obvious, but to couples at the beginning of their wedding journey, it might not be so clear. In short, you can’t possible know what you don’t yet know! Unless you’re a serial bride/groom, you won’t have been through this process before and of course the hope is, that you won’t go through it again.

What you may know is that weddings are expensive and planning your own may seem like a good way to save money, especially considering that the average wedding in Sydney costs in the vicinity of $60,000. Of course there are infinite variables, such as venue, number of guests, quality of products etc., that go into making up that figure, and there’s much you can do to change the bottom line. But what that figure doesn’t include is the value of your time.

The average wedding takes around 250 hours to plan. If you were to assign an hourly value to your time and multiply it by 250, you’d very quickly see your budget blown! Of course, the more your decide to do on your own, the more time it’s going to take to research and source the inexhaustible supply of wedding vendors, products and services.

Luckily, there is a plethora of online tools these days to assist you in your planning such as spreadsheets and checklists. In fact, Google will quickly become your best friend (or worst enemy) as you spend hours, days, weeks trawling through hundreds of wedding industry websites, trying to discern one from the other… and that’s just to make your shortlists.

Armed with your shortlists, you can then look forward to numerous meetings, site visits, negotiations, contracts, payments, reminders, questions, changes, communications, and so on and so forth. If this doesn’t sound like much fun to you, or if you can think of better uses for your time, you’re likely to be one of those people who wish they knew then what they know now and had hired a wedding planner!

If, on the other hand, it does sound like fun to you, chances are you are a wedding planner! We are that strange breed who actually enjoys going through the mill again and again. Where as you are likely to only do it once, amassing knowledge and experience you will never need to apply again, we accumulate skills, contacts and experience that we can then pass on to you to ultimately save you time, money and sanity!

At For Thy Sweet Love, we have the tools and experience to record, track, manage, and communicate all the information you need to ensure your wedding is in safe hands and on track.

We have a database of tried, tested, and trusted professionals. People you can count on to deliver on their promises.

We’ve seen and done it all before. From the big things like coordinating different vendors on your wedding day; the practical things like Council permits, and wet weather contingencies; right down to the minutiae such as ensuring that you have drinking straws on hand so you don’t mess up your lippie!

As one of our beautiful brides succinctly put it, a wedding planner “genuinely cares about our wedding and our sanity” and surely there can be no greater investment than your own peace of mind.

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